Man is by nature a social being, therefore, when he finds himself alone, sooner or later this state begins to weigh on him. Lack of close people and lack of communication can cause real suffering, so it is quite understandable to want to get rid of loneliness and feel needed and loved.
Instructions
Step 1
Analyze your behavior: what caused people to avoid you and you are alone. The world around you cannot be altered, you can only change yourself and your attitude to what is happening - remember this.
Step 2
Think, perhaps, your self-esteem is too high, and you do not know how to hide your condescending attitude towards the people around you, and very few people will like this and as a result often leads to loneliness. Your strengths are well known to you, but others may not always see them behind aggressive behavior and cold communication.
Step 3
Or maybe, on the contrary, you think too low of yourself. You are afraid that when you get to know each other closely, people will immediately see your flaws and will offend you with ridicule. Believe me, this is not so, the ability to admit your imperfection always commands respect. Start working on correcting what you don't like about yourself, and stop being complex - everyone has flaws. This will be the first step towards getting rid of loneliness.
Step 4
Take a closer look at yourself: maybe you are a too gloomy and pessimistic person, from a conversation with whom, after five minutes, you already begin to break your teeth. No one wants to communicate while experiencing mental discomfort. And how to get rid of loneliness, if you continue in the same spirit? Tune in to a positive mood and try to convey it to those with whom you communicate - you yourself will be surprised how many people will reach out to you.
Step 5
If you have no hobbies and you are bored even with yourself, few people will be interested in you. Find a fun activity to relieve your loneliness. Together with your hobby, you will gain like-minded people and friends.
Step 6
Remember the proverb "Water does not flow under a lying stone," and take action. Sitting alone at home, you will not find yourself either friends or a loved one. If now something does not work out, arm yourself with patience and our advice, change yourself, and gradually the situation, thanks to your efforts, will change.
