You can build your life not only in your youth. Even if you are well over thirty, you have the chance to start all over again, turn around life circumstances and achieve happiness.
Instructions
Step 1
Understand that you can live a fulfilling, interesting life at any age. Just like in early youth, you can self-actualize, open up new horizons. The only obstacle can be your distrust of yourself. So eliminate it. Doubt will only prevent you from acting. Think about your accomplishments and successes. Their presence suggests that you can and can do a lot. Take into account your life experience, wisdom and be calm about your future.
Step 2
Get good health. Unfortunately, the age when the body forgives you neglect of proper sleep and poor-quality nutrition has passed. To be in shape, you need to follow your lifestyle. Eliminate unhealthy foods from your diet: fried, sweet, smoked, salty, starchy foods. Go to the gym or dance class, and be active. So you will have enough strength and energy to achieve all the goals that you set for yourself. And the reflection in the mirror will delight you and add enthusiasm.
Step 3
Find your look. Young girls are forgiven for small blunders in the choice of clothing, hairstyle or makeup. A mature woman should be distinguished by impeccable style and thoughtful image. Upon reaching the age of 35, you have studied your figure well, you know what styles suit you, how to buy good lingerie, what colors you need to choose in clothes. If you find it difficult to navigate the current fashion trends, contact a professional stylist.
Step 4
Break old habits and adopt new ones if you want to start life anew. This applies primarily to the way of thinking. If something went wrong in your life, perhaps the reason for this was precisely a negative attitude. Take a fresh look at your lifestyle. Perhaps you pay a lot of attention to detail, losing sight of the essence of things. Don't get hung up on the little things, take a simpler look at life. Find the right distraction and calmness that works for you.
Step 5
Pay attention to your career. 35 is the age when you need to decide what you are good at and what peaks you want to reach. However, if you have not found yourself in the field in which you have worked until now, and do not see prospects for your position, try yourself in a new field. Don't be intimidated by the prospect of starting up the career ladder anew. You had the opportunity to study yourself perfectly, to determine your own talents and abilities, which means that you know what new job will suit you. Get trained and go for it if necessary.
