He can be smart, handsome, wealthy, have an excellent sense of humor and look at you with loving eyes. However, doubts that a young man really suits you will prevail over you from the very first acquaintance. Before your relationship has gone too far, take a good look at the situation.
It is necessary
the trip
Instructions
Step 1
Consider whether the young man's habits and gestures are annoying you. See how he eats, drives a car, washes, coughs. If a man suits you, even the most unpleasant little things will not disgust you.
Step 2
Observe your own behavior when you are together. If you feel inner comfort, completely relax, are not ashamed of your shortcomings, and you can walk without makeup - these are definitely positive signs. With "your" man, you will not want to invent anything about yourself and seem better. You will behave as naturally as possible, feeling togetherness and calmness.
Step 3
Go on a shared trip. It can be both an overseas trip and a vacation at a camp site near the city. In a few days, you can learn more about a person than in months of friendship. See how he will behave with you, what will irritate him, how he will react to emergency situations. And most importantly: listen to how you feel after your trip. If you were really comfortable together, and you remember this time with a smile, then your relationship has a good future.
Step 4
Ask about your boyfriend's future plans. Even if you are very good with him at the moment, a man may not be suitable for you due to his further aspirations. For example, you dream of a cozy home and children, and even the sight of a baby is unpleasant for him and he plans to spend the next ten years traveling around the world. You may have different tastes and temperaments, but the fundamental views on the most important things should be the same.
