What, in your opinion, is the most important thing in family life? Love, of course. However, if you decide to connect your life with another person, then you have already found love. But the problems do not end there. The main thing that family people usually lack is mutual understanding. Men and women are very different, which is why it is so difficult to reach mutual understanding. But there are some basic rules of conduct that will help you avoid most fights.
Instructions
Step 1
Learn restraint and calmness. You should be able to stay calm in any situation, especially when your man is a hot-tempered person. The inability to contain your emotions in time only leads to quarrels and mutual misunderstandings. Even if you really want to vent your emotions, remember that this will not solve the problem. It can only be solved by a sober and sound analysis of the situation, but certainly not by a scandal.
Step 2
Direct your efforts not against each other, but somewhere in the same direction. Find a common problem that you both would like to deal with. Let this problem become like a common "enemy" for the two of you. This will help you feel that you are on the same side of the barricades, and in this case it is completely inappropriate to quarrel and brawl.
Step 3
Apply surprise. The moment you feel that the scandal is ripe and cannot be avoided, try to surprise your man with some unusual, unexpected action. For example, start out of the blue with a physical exercise. The main thing is not to go too far so that the man does not take your actions for a mockery and does not get angry even more.
Step 4
Stop being offended by everything. Does the man like to poke fun at you? If he really loves you, then for sure there is nothing really offensive in his jokes. Learn to treat them calmly and with humor. In addition, it happens that a man begins to joke because he is unhappy with something and wants to provoke a quarrel in order to sort out the relationship. If in this case you show composure and indifference to his barbs, then he will understand that his efforts are in vain and will stop this circus.
Step 5
Learn to constantly support your man in everything. Men, despite the fact that they consider themselves the stronger sex, very often need support, a reliable shoulder. They need a person who can speak out, complain, the person who will pity the man. Become such a person for your man, do not blame him for weakness - after all, everyone needs support.
Step 6
Stop making yourself a victim. If you start indulging your soulmate in everything to the detriment of yourself, then no mutual understanding will work - you will feel offended all the time, and he will feel that he has unlimited power over you. If you don't like something - say it, just do not push too hard and do not take on the role of commander.
