It is not so easy to form a personality in oneself. The fact is that the personality is formed by itself, a consequence of the troubles of life that we meet on the way, as a result of enrichment of knowledge, as a result of communication with different people. This is an independent process, but it can be helped.
Instructions
Step 1
Personality is a set of properties inherent in a person and forming his individuality. Think if you can actually form this aggregate yourself? After all, if you yourself want to choose a number of some characteristic features, then you, most likely, will be guided either by someone else's example, or by your own ideas about the ideal. But instilling something foreign in yourself is very difficult, if not impossible; rejection occurs in most cases. You can only try to change for the better.
Step 2
Let there always be some positive example before your eyes. It may be someone from your relatives or friends who has managed to achieve a lot. Copy the best features of it, gradually, checking from time to time, whether your "I" can accept the innovation. But never blindly follow the ideal: analyze its actions, draw timely conclusions, ask the opinion of people whom you respect. It would be foolish to copy your life with someone else's and replace your "I" with someone else's.
Step 3
Read more. It is impossible to find out everything in the world yourself. A refined life, flowing from year to year in the same (usually good) conditions, in the circle of the same friends (usually completely uninteresting and who have not achieved anything special) is the lot of very few people, but even if life has battered you, there will always be some area - feelings, knowledge, skills, principles, which you have not touched. To get at least some idea of her, read books, good books. From them you will learn a lot that you may not have been able to see in your life.
Step 4
Don't push people away from you. Nothing develops a personality like contact with the world of another person. When meeting, do not think that this or that person you will never need, will not meet again, or that he will not need you. Be careful with people, as there are instances that can break any personality, even one as strong as yours. However, do not close your eyes to people, immersed in yourself. They can tell you even more than books.
Step 5
Your personality develops throughout your life. The only thing you can do is somehow direct the course of this development and become what corresponds to another definition of the word "personality" - a person with a pronounced individuality. Take care of yourself, do not forget about the norms of morality and ethics, about philanthropy and mercy. This may sound corny; but it is precisely these principles repeated from century to century that form the real Personality.
