In modern life, there is often no time for long-term relationships when you can be studied and well known. Often you are faced with a situation when you need to tell about yourself when you accidentally meet on the Internet or at a friendly party. Few girls will be able to easily and naturally tell a guy about themselves. And you need to do it right.
What can you tell a guy about yourself?
Guys are conservatives and do not like sharp movements, defiant behavior and appearance, strange humor. Bragging and lying, arrogance and self-centeredness are also unattractive. But simplicity, accessibility, sincerity are impressive and understandable. Therefore, you should not embellish yourself, at the same time, you can unobtrusively emphasize your positive qualities, and keep silent about non-fundamental shortcomings. To know what to talk about, it's best to prepare in advance. Understand yourself, analyze your life and actions.
Do not overwhelm with excessive frankness and certainly try to consolidate the acquaintance with a joint secret. Also try not to spread about your problems at work, in life or with health and other troubles. It is better to make the first impression of a positive person with an easy life and not fixated on failures.
You should not wash the bones of acquaintances, especially an ex-boyfriend, to tell about your relationship, about how many romantic attachments you had in general. It is reckless to start eternal gender disputes: who is more important, smarter and more logical - women or men.
Try to find common interests and common ground. Develop this topic. Tell us about your plans for the future, try to dream up together.
Share your impressions that have greatly impressed you, tell us about travel, rest and entertainment.
How to talk to a guy by telling him about yourself?
When telling a guy about yourself, speak confidently, calmly, without getting confused or confused in facts and sentences. You should not retell your whole life, starting from infancy and affection in kindergarten. Do not get hung up on trifles, remember the brightest and funniest cases.
Try to speak in a contagious manner so as not only to arouse the interlocutor's interest, but also to awaken in him the desire to say something personal about the topic of conversation. If you want to continue the relationship, do not seek to speak out immediately and without a trace, get interested, but leave a lot of mysteries and unsaid for the future. Allow your counterpart to insert cues and reason in response. The more interested in his persona you look, the more detailed you will be able to find out. Listen carefully, show your support and approval.
All these tips seem to be obvious, but in practice they are difficult to implement, especially if you really like the guy … Be natural and do not lose your head.
