“Whoever praises me better than anyone else will get a sweet candy!”, The heroine of the popular children's cartoon repeats. Everything seems to be simple. But it is only as adults that we understand that the art of praise needs to be learned. Simple techniques will give you the opportunity to express your delight without feeling awkward.
Instructions
Step 1
Outright flattery is a powerful weapon. She can confuse the interlocutor, but she always hits the target. Enthusiastic words, spoken bluntly, in person, are usually remembered for a long time. This method has only one drawback - you may be suspected of insincerity.
Step 2
If you decide to direct, flowery compliments, pronounce them confidently. You can even rehearse in front of the mirror, then you will definitely not forget your speech from excitement. It is also important to choose the right place: it is quite appropriate to pour out your enthusiasm at a holiday, party, but you should not suddenly unleash emotions on a nice colleague during a work meeting. Feelings are feelings, but the rules of etiquette have not yet been canceled.
Step 3
Expressing delight, make it clear to the interlocutor that you do not expect reciprocal emotions from him. Otherwise, the effect of outpouring will be the opposite - the object of your admiration will begin to avoid you. This behavior is understandable. Admiration is, albeit a positive, but still an assessment. Not everyone likes to feel this kind of attention all the time.
Step 4
A subtler way to express delight is to write a letter in verse or give a gift. But if in the first case you have to suffer with the selection of the right words, then in the second your offering will speak for itself. It is better to save expensive gifts for special occasions, and now your good attitude will be demonstrated by a cute trinket - a soft toy, a funny cup or sweets.
Step 5
If you are impatient to confess your love to a famous artist, you should not guard him at the entrance and throw yourself around your neck with a hot hug. Your idol will be pleased with a bouquet or a basket of flowers, where you can put a postcard with the most sincere wishes of success in your work.
Step 6
And yet, the best way to show your good attitude is not in words, but in deeds. Especially if the subject of your admiration is a loved one. Don't waste words. Just do what he wants you to do. Sometimes it's just a delicious dinner, a leisurely walk, simple human involvement.
