Many are interested in the ability to identify and see lies, because no one wants to be deceived. However, in order to check the sincerity of a person, special devices are not needed, sometimes it is enough to pay attention to some indirect signs that appear in many people at the moment when they begin to tell a lie.
Instructions
Step 1
To make the story believable and convincing, many people try to add a variety of real facts to the fictional story that are far from the topic of the conversation. For example, if you want to find out about the people with whom your interlocutor saw, and he, in turn, wants to hide it, then as a result you will hear detailed stories about food, weather, events, but he will only touch upon the names of the people themselves. That is, you will be given a lot of information that does not affect the subject of the conversation.
Step 2
Using words or phrases from your question, as well as repeating the question itself completely until the moment when the person starts talking, already indicates insincerity. In such situations, many people, trying to hide the truth, take the time to come up with a plausible version.
Step 3
Trying to clear your throat, coughing, or changing your speaking pace from normal to faster are all indications that the person is nervous and may be telling you a lie. This is also indicated by an unprovoked change in the voice and tone of the interlocutor. If a person, during his story, constantly comes back and supplements it with new facts, then this indicates his insincerity. After all, a just fictional story is extremely difficult to add, there is a great risk of getting confused and confused.
Step 4
If a person constantly touches his face with his hands, for example, touches the bridge of the nose, scratches his nose or covers his mouth, then this indicates that he is subconsciously closing from you. In addition, if a person shifts from foot to foot or takes small steps back, then this indicates his desire to end the conversation so as not to tell any important thing. It is especially important to pay attention to the movements of the interlocutor when you ask questions (for example, tilting your head back is an attempt to close).
Step 5
Try to keep an eye on the person's emotions as you talk. If a person is trying to hide something from you, then his emotions may be delayed, remain on the face for too long, appear earlier than necessary. This suggests that the person is distracted from your conversation and demonstrates emotions that are not really there.
Step 6
Excessive emotions can also show insincerity. For example, if a person reacts too violently or, conversely, talks to you too politely, then this may mean that he is trying to hide his true feelings behind the mask of others.
Step 7
The eyes are the mirror of the soul, they occupy a certain position in accordance with which area of the brain is currently involved. Knowing the basic provisions, you can guess what the mind of your interlocutor is doing. For example, if a person looks to the upper right corner, then this means the processing of visual images, if to the upper left corner, he comes up with an image. The eyes are directed to the right - a person remembers, to the left - he comes up with sounds. Looking left and down - analyzing your emotions, and right and down - thinking about the current situation.
