Quarrels arise in everyone. Where there is no clarification of the relationship, there is no drive. But if you offended your girlfriend in the process of a quarrel, then it is necessary to apologize to her, otherwise she may think that you are indifferent to her.
Instructions
Step 1
Before asking for forgiveness, try to understand what exactly hurt her. If you managed to get her out into the conversation, then this is already half the success. Do not put pressure on her in any way, do not use harsh words. Find out what you have done. It is worse if the girl does not want to explain anything and generally talk to you.
Step 2
If the girl did not say a word, and each of your remarks causes a tantrum, then give up trying for now - it is useless to talk. Wait for the wave of emotion to subside.
Step 3
When you find out the reason, then you can think about how to ask for forgiveness. The reasons for resentment may be adequate and inadequate. When analyzing, keep in mind that you and her may look at the same things in different ways. Don't judge from your bell tower.
Step 4
When you understand what you have done wrong, go ask for forgiveness. Whatever the reason, you need to behave firmly, not lisping or limping, as you can give the girl a reason to take advantage of your temporary weakness.
Step 5
If you've done something really serious, talk to her first and explain why you did it. For the quarrel to be resolved, it is necessary that each of you understand the position of the other. This will help you find a compromise faster.
Step 6
If you are still wrong, here are some ways to make amends:
- Write under her windows that you love her. Let others say that this is trite, but it will be pleasant for her, because no one has done this for her yet.
- Do something that you have never done before. It can be a dinner made with your own hands or a massage that will melt your girlfriend.
- Present flowers. This is a universal way to apologize. Even if the girl frowns, you should know that she is pleased.
- Give her yourself for the whole day or evening. It works especially well if she knows what it cost you to refuse to go to the match of your favorite team.
