When a friend is in trouble, you want to somehow cheer her up. Friendship is good because in difficult times there is a close person who will support and find ways to brighten up the moments of despondency.
Invite to a tea party
When a friend is not in the mood, you should first encourage her to have a frank conversation. Nothing soothes girls like having tea with delicious sweets during a sincere conversation about life. If you notice how something disturbs your friend, invite her to take a walk in a cafe and sit with a cup of tea. Or you can have a tea party at home: buy a delicious cake and discuss the accumulated heap of problems. You can first talk about your problems, then the friend will be more willing to share what worries her.
Tell a funny story
When the problems are all expressed, you should not be in a state of sadness for a long time. We need to look for an urgent way to cheer up, and for this it is better to remember something funny. You can tell some interesting story about mutual acquaintances. Or think about the times when you found yourself in ridiculous and funny situations together. Laugh at how much fun you were then, and notice how interesting life is. Find other funny stories and anecdotes to retell. In any case, a friend will appreciate your efforts and will not be able to continue to be frankly sad for a long time.
Look at nice photos
Invite your girlfriend to ponder about the past and see your favorite pictures together. Choose the best and most positive ones in advance. Looking at each photo, remind how the events took place: what was cool, funny and non-standard. Laugh and rejoice from the heart, and your sincere and positive emotions will certainly go to your girlfriend. No matter how sad she is, she will not be able to indifferently look at the happy moments in life.
Go to the cinema
Invite your friend to watch an interesting and life-affirming movie. You may not want to tell her in advance that he is positive and intended to cheer her up. So she can tune in to play the role of "princess-not laughing" and will try to restrain her emotions. Better say that you yourself don't know how good this film is, but your friends advised you to watch it. And without your beloved friend, of course, you will not go. A trip to the cinema, a change of scenery, an interesting plot and positive will play their part and cheer up the girlfriend.
Suggest an action plan
The final decisive step in raising spirits must be an action plan to improve the future. He must be global, decisive and cardinal. It must be beautifully described in bright colors and the smallest detail. Do not be shy in your sentences and do not use platitudes. To improve your mood, you need something serious, and even if the plan may not look very real, it will be mesmerizing with courage. A friend will understand how much you value her and all your efforts will melt the ice and drive away the melancholy.
