The famous American psychologist Dale Carnegie wrote: “There is only one way in the world to induce someone to do something … And that is to make another person want to do it. Remember - there is no other way. Therefore, if you want your girlfriend to act in accordance with your desire, learn how to correctly persuade her.
Instructions
Step 1
First of all, stop arguing or quarreling, if any, due to a clash of your opinions. By insisting on your opinion, you generate a completely natural desire to contradict.
Step 2
The ax of war easily changes to a pipe of peace after the phrases: "Darling, of course, problems need to be solved, but not at such a price: I missed your smile so much. Let's forget about everything for a while and take a walk in the park, go to the movies, visit friends, play bowling. " Any pleasant time together will do. The most decisive will like the advice to translate the quarrel into sex.
Step 3
Take time out, do not start a conversation about a sensitive topic. On the contrary, try to set the girl in a romantic mood. Be gentle and caring, show all the qualities that the girl in you loves.
Step 4
Gradually, without touching the subject of the dispute directly, create the illusion that you are ready to agree with her opinion. Vocalize the idea that situations are different, but the main thing for your couple is to stay together and look in the same direction.
Step 5
Set up situations that would clearly show the girl the correctness of your point of view. Important: situations should look random, occurring regardless of your will. Do not discuss a sore subject at this stage with the girl, for example, if the essence of the conflict is that you want to go to see the Olympic construction site in Sochi, and the girl wants to go to Turkey, casually visit friends who have just had a great rest in Sochi and exude delight from the trip.
Step 6
At this stage, it is important to play the role of a man who stepped on the throat of his song and gave in to the girl because of his strong love for her. For example, after listening to the enthusiasm of your friends about Sochi, breathe that you and your girlfriend really, really want to visit our south, but "this year somehow it doesn't work out that way, maybe next time …"
Step 7
After the girl has been sufficiently impressed with examples that demonstrate the benefits of your point of view, and you feel that she hesitates or even leans towards your opinion, start a direct conversation about the sensitive topic. Invite her to speak, be attentive and understanding. Agree with the girl's opinion, but hint at her selfishness: "The main thing is that you feel good …"
