A person was born for happiness, dreams of loving and being loved, but, unfortunately, this does not always happen. It so happens that a woman loves, but does not receive reciprocity, but it happens on the contrary - she is surrounded by love, and her heart remains cold. Then you have to think about what is better - to love or be loved.
Instructions
Step 1
Unrequited love is always a big drama. A woman perfectly understands that she has no chance of reciprocity, it is impossible to force a person to fall in love, because it is not for nothing that they say that you cannot order your heart. Deep down, she continues to hope for something and at the same time is constantly afraid that a loved one will fall in love with someone else, and she will lose him - now forever. A woman wants to constantly see him, take care of him, make pleasant surprises for him. But he is completely indifferent to it.
Step 2
She understands that this situation cannot last forever, but more often than not, nothing can be done with herself. Oddly enough, even in this one can find positive moments. A person can be happy because his heart is filled with love, life takes on a new meaning and it is not so important whether love is mutual or not. A loving person, and even more so a woman, looks at the world around him with different eyes, and he begins to sparkle with bright colors simply because he has that one, beloved and only one, even if he will never be there.
Step 3
Any, even seemingly happy and mutual love cannot exist without jealousy, anxiety, temporary quarrels, people begin to make claims to each other, often, in passion, decide to leave. If a person loves, realizing that he has no hope for a reciprocal feeling, and without asking for anything in return, this speaks of the beauty of his soul and the wealth of his inner world.
Step 4
Another situation is also possible. A woman meets a man who loves her very much, tries to surround her with attention, but she only allows herself to be loved without experiencing reciprocal feelings. In this case, she gets the opportunity to manipulate the lover, takes his attention for granted, readily accepts expensive gifts and does not feel remorse at all for playing with other people's feelings.
Step 5
Life in this case becomes even easier. A woman does not feel jealous, does not feel obliged to even try to do something for this person and only enjoys the fruits of his love. However, she does not feel any elation at the same time.
Step 6
What is better - to love, knowing that there will be no reciprocity, or to allow an unloved person to surround himself with love and care? Everyone makes the decision for himself. As a rule, at a young age, girls consider unrequited love a terrible tragedy, but they gladly accept the beautiful courtship of a person to whom they themselves are completely indifferent. When mental maturity comes, it becomes easier for a woman to accept a situation in which only she loves, and to find the meaning of life in her love.
Step 7
Of course, the greatest happiness is to love and be loved at the same time, and it is simply wonderful when a person, even if he has experienced pain and suffering of unrequited love in the past, will still manage to find it.
