If you think about the other person's reservations, you can understand what problems bother him and what he often thinks about. Cognitive activity and speech motor skills are closely related. No matter how a person controls himself, his inner content will be manifested by reservations, actions, an emotional state.
Reservations are kind of an extension of our thought process. They show how we really feel. Slips often indicate the presence of certain psychological problems. The reasons for the formation of reservations can be different.
Problems
When a person is constantly thinking hard about a certain problem, then he involuntarily makes reservations on this topic. For example, an individual is afraid of a possible dismissal from work and his only thought about this, it would be quite logical for him to say “I’ll go, I’ll quit,” instead of “I’ll go and wash”.
Concentration on something
When the brain is focused on solving a problem, a person does not concentrate on his speech and can make reservations and mistakes. For example, an individual may ask “to weigh him 200g … hours in the store”, if, for example, he is in a hurry to somewhere and constantly monitors the time.
Suppressed emotions
Emotions, the manifestation of which a person considers reprehensible, is a "time bomb". The more they are suppressed, the more they are forced into the unconscious and involuntarily provoke reservations.
The slips that arise are often comical in nature, but they create certain difficulties in expressing their thoughts. Therefore, it is necessary to get rid of such annoying mistakes. The main ways are:
- training
- appropriate psychological attitude
- speech control