It is believed that in a relationship, one partner always loves more than the other, that one sincerely loves, and the other only allows himself to be loved. So what position is better for a woman to take in a relationship with a man - to love or be loved?
The choice of position - to love or be loved - depends on the nature of the woman. It is believed that women are more sensual, gentle and giving themselves without a trace for the benefit of other people. This is often the case in relationships with a man, and then in marriage: a woman meets a man, falls in love, arouses interest in a partner, and from now on is ready to be only with him. At the same time, for the sake of love, she can do anything, fulfill any desire of her young man, resignedly endure his whims and wishes.
There is also the opposite situation, when a woman only allows a young man to take care of herself, give gifts and flowers, and take her on trips. Her partner is so captured by her beauty, strength of character and charm that he falls in love without memory, wanting only one thing: that the object of his love would pay attention to him.
Which side to choose?
None of these positions are ideal in relationships, but any of them is possible in real life. The choice of position depends on the characters of both partners. If a woman is accustomed to giving more to other people, constantly caring for someone, most likely, for her, the position of loving will be more desirable. It is quite possible that subconsciously she will choose a partner for herself, whom she can admire, or whom she can take care of, receiving in return a kind of permission to do so.
Such a couple can look quite harmonious if both the woman and her partner get exactly what they need in the relationship. Ultimately, love is the highest form of sympathy and affection, it gives so much that people who only know how to accept love will never feel it.
However, if a girl is used to taking more from the relationship than investing in it, the position of the one who only allows herself to be loved will be more convenient for her. This is also a fairly common role for women in relationships. To do this, a girl, as a rule, must have a fairly strong character, be great at understanding men and be confident in her beauty and sexuality.
The ideal is possible
Relationships become most comfortable when these two extremes are smoothed out: both the man and the woman begin to bring something to their union, and not just take or give something to their partner. Such relationships are called harmonious, because it is impossible to give love for a long time without receiving something in return, just as it is impossible to accept feelings for a long time without experiencing reciprocal feelings.
