Women are divided into two types. Some strive to get married as soon as possible, while others put a career as the main goal of life. What is more important - personal life or career growth?
Due to the economic situation in the country, in modern families there is often a situation where both spouses are working. Psychologists believe that this is an important factor in family life. Women, who used to do household chores all their free time, began to work quite a lot, practically giving up their former duties. In many couples, the question arises of who and how will deal with household chores, how they will share household chores.
Often, couples who are committed to work are most likely to face conflicts in the family. Both men and women get tired of working everyday life, monotonous work. Arriving home, tired spouses can "break" on each other and, without noticing it, create a conflict. When both spouses are busy promoting their careers, it is quite difficult to get away from conflicts and quarrels. They often do not have enough time for family, household chores, or for themselves.
How can this threaten? The answer to this question lies on the surface. The marriage can fall apart. The spouses will be doomed to loneliness. They are deprived of family warmth and support of a loved one. And even the results achieved in the work may not bring the desired pleasure. How to avoid such a fate?
Couples with a similar problem need to try to protect their relationship. A marriage that is not nourished by feelings is doomed to the fact that work will push out thoughts of love and the other half. That is why you should recognize your mistakes in time. Before it's too late. You don't have to choose a career or family. You just need to learn how to combine them.
For constantly working spouses, it is important to spend free time together, organize joint trips to the cinema, cafes or museums. Joint dinners will warm up the family hearth. At least at home. Trips outside the city, to nature, will also have a beneficial effect on relationships. It is important to find at least 15 minutes to just chat with your loved one. Not on everyday topics, but on the feelings and experiences of each other. At such moments, you should carefully listen to your partner, try to give him advice. The main thing is not to forget about each other and not to put a career above family, because it is not so easy to find true love.
Household chores can also drag the couple down. Do not wait for family chores to escalate into conflict. Responsibilities just need to be negotiated in advance and divided between the spouses. Do not forget to leave the work that the couple can do together. Thus, combining the necessary housework with a pleasant time with a loved one.
What is more important - family or work? Everyone has the right to decide for himself. But those who value both the first and the second should be able to properly allocate their time, so as not to end up at the "broken trough" later.
