The opinion that only a particularly talented, charismatic person can become the soul of a company is not entirely true. You can learn effective communication techniques, control the attention of a group of people, maintain and develop good relationships with others, if you wish.
Instructions
Step 1
Learn to listen. This quality is even more important than eloquence in building effective relationships. Become a great, attentive, understanding listener, and you will be loved in any company. Use active listening techniques: keep eye contact with the interlocutor, ask questions to clarify some points in his story, show with gestures that you listen and understand him.
Step 2
Practice communication. It is easier for someone who communicates a lot to become their own in a new company. It is not enough to know the secrets of effective communication. You should train them regularly and for a long time in practice. Try to establish contact with each of your coworkers, don't be afraid to start a small, unimportant conversation with a stranger.
Step 3
Develop a sense of humor. A person next to whom it is fun, easy and good, like a magnet, attracts other people to him. Keep a few jokes and funny stories in stock, watch more comedies, read ironic stories. Treat everything with a little irony, be an optimistic, cheerful person, and you will be able to win the love of others.
Step 4
Remember to compliment people. Sincere praise on a non-trivial occasion will lift the mood of the people around you and win them over to you. Just remember that the compliment should be true and not overly exaggerated.
Step 5
Try to get rid of your complexes. To do this, you need to love yourself, focus on the strengths of your character and the beneficial sides of your own appearance, and simply forget about the shortcomings that cannot be corrected.
Step 6
Develop. Be an interesting conversationalist. To skillfully maintain a meaningful conversation, you need to be interested in the realities of the life around you. The more versatile you are, the more conversation you can have with other people.
Step 7
Watch your appearance. Keep your clothes ironed, your shoes clean, your skin fresh, your hair neat. With a person who looks good and smells good, you want to communicate much more than with a slob.
