You've been expecting a call from him for a week now. But there is no call. And you whisper like a spell: "Well, darling, well, please, call." You never let go of your mobile phone for a second and check for the hundred and first time to see if you missed a call? Of course, you could have called him yourself (horror, how you want to do this!), But you have learned well your mother's lessons that women are supposed to be proud and not the first men to call.
In these days of deaf male silence, your mood fluctuates from angry: “I don’t want to know him anymore!” To frightened: “What if something happened to him ?!” You are either angry or worried about him. Then it seems to you that he, as if suffering from a severe form of amnesia, has completely forgotten you and made a new girlfriend. Then suddenly you imagine him - unhappy - under the wheels of a car, or fell out of a flying plane, or fell into the clutches of robbers, or fell ill with a disease unknown to modern science. As they say, there would be a problem. And how to torment ourselves with this problem harder - we women will find a way! But psychologists assure: it's time to say a firm "stop" to feelings, it's time to stop analyzing an empty, in general, situation and hope that a man is about to remember you, is about to realize everything and call you. May be. Someday.
It is possible that your paths will cross someday. The earth is round. But today you have a more important task than dreaming about a future meeting. You need to stop torturing yourself. Understand, even if a man at this moment is solving problems of a global scale, a week is more than enough to pick up the phone and dial your number. Of course, if he wants to. Men are creatures determined to win, inclined to speed up the development of relationships with the woman they like. And if you interested him, in any scenario of his life situations, in a day or two he definitely found time to call and make sure that everything is all right with you. But if he is silent for a whole week, then here is not only the third, here and the second is not given. There is only one option - you didn't hook him. The law of "no attraction" has worked. Alas, accept this fact.
This is where it all begins. Accept … Easy to say! And how to do it? Indeed, in the head, except for a man-dream, nothing fits. And if it fits, it doesn't stay long. And you sort through the memories - here we walked, … here he told me, … looked, … wrote down the phone number. … Well, why doesn't he call! Stop! Get a hold of yourself. Believe me, very soon you will see that your life has not become worse with his disappearance. Men come and go, making room for new, more worthy ones. And so that the process of pulling yourself together was painless, remember a few useful rules.
Rule 1. In no case do not despair and do not shed a tear (tears spoil the appearance).
Rule 2. Do not pester a man with plaintive calls (such calls will give him a reason to happily think that he broke up with you).
Rule 3. Do not dwell on this problem (there are people who are much worse off than you).
Rule 4. Get distracted and engage in self-improvement (start, for example, learning Japanese).
Rule 5. Calm down and think that a new, good, worthy man will definitely appear in your life.
