They talk a lot about addiction, but do not consider addiction in relationships. When creating relationships, people often confuse addiction with love, which leads to jealousy.
Life is full of surprises and paradoxes. Many have heard about the existence of such a type of interaction as addiction. It is precisely this way of interaction that has paradoxes.
Pronounced addictions are manifested in the use of drugs, alcohol and tobacco. Two contradictory trends are being promoted in society at once. First, the media and films create an image of a person who successfully solves his problems only through the use of drugs, alcohol and tobacco. In a similar way, images of human behavior are modeled and written into the subconscious, who successfully solves his problems. Second, a healthy lifestyle is being promoted in broadcasts and on Internet channels.
Less pronounced addictions translate into following fashion trends, from clothing to lifestyle. Advertising creates such a need. In society, it is becoming the norm that a person constantly desires something within the limits of the advertised product.
There is a hidden addiction that people generally perceive as good and call it in other words like love, jealousy, passion.
Very often we met the expression that I love and cannot live without this person or I feel so bad without him, and so it has nothing to do with love. This is a manifestation of a kind of addiction. Addiction always evokes feelings of jealousy, passion, adoration and bigotry. A person has thoughts about how to get it or keep it at any cost, even to the detriment of others or oneself.
In most cases, relationships with the opposite sex are based on addiction. For example, a young man lived and did not go anywhere, uncommunicative. Then he met a girl who is active and loves sports and socializing with other people. A guy through a girl discovers a completely different world. And when you open up opportunities for yourself, a feeling of lightness and inspiration is born. It is these feelings that people take for love. The appearance of a girl and the discovery of opportunities are connected by the subconscious, and a person begins to believe that another person gives him opportunities. This is how psychological dependence is formed, which manifests itself in jealousy in relationships.
If a young man believes that he gets opportunities from a girl, then with all his might he will hold on to her in order to have these opportunities. Suffering begins when a person who has discovered opportunities leaves.
If a young man realizes that he always has these opportunities, then he will not have suffering and jealousy for the girl.
Addiction is a way of controlling other people. Nowadays the thinking of a dependent person is being formed in order to develop more and more the consumption of goods. It is easier for addicted people to offer and sell what is profitable and cheap to produce and not take into account the real needs of people.
