The relationship between mother and daughter in some families is far from ideal. Close relationship is not a guarantee of mutual understanding.
Until the daughter grows up, the mother is the leader in this relationship. Responsibility for the relationship entirely falls on her shoulders. The mother should not take her daughter as property. Even at a very young age, a child needs to be able to be himself, to have his own opinion and the ability to make decisions.
The daughter is growing up, and responsibility for the relationship falls on the shoulders of both women. On the one hand, the daughter longs for freedom, and on the other, she seeks maternal support. When a conflict situation arises, the mother should again take the first step towards a meeting. She must convince her child that they are not rivals, and no matter what happens, under no circumstances, the mother will not become her enemy.
In a family where the mother has completely and completely devoted herself to her daughter, a person usually grows up who is sure that all the attention of the mother always belongs only to her. And with any attempt to "send her daughter on an open voyage," the mother is rebuffed. The daughter believes that the mother should continue to meet her needs, but at the same time not encroach on her freedom. Here the mother needs to overpower herself. An adult daughter must independently solve her problems and find a way out of the current life situation.
If you want to restore relations on both sides at any age, only a frank conversation can serve as a panacea.
