Respect helps you achieve success in life, such as pursuing a career and making friends. And it is often based not on social status or position, but on how a person manifests himself, what qualities he possesses. And in school, and at work, and among friends, you can get a well-deserved attitude.
Behavior and communication at work
Always do your best job. Those who do everything carefully, check the details and do not shy away from responsibilities, command respect. And here the important thing is not work experience and professionalism, but hard work and responsibility. Any team appreciates those who can do everything efficiently, on time. And this does not require much effort, it is only important to always understand what all this is for and what you want to get as a result.
Learn to accept complaints and criticism of your work. Perfect people do not exist, which means that tasks are not completed 100%. Very often there will be comments about completing assignments, and this does not apply to you, does not hurt you as a person, but only helps to improve. The ability to admit mistakes is a rare quality that characterizes a professional. And if you also correct them, then the effectiveness will increase, and this will definitely cause respect.
To be respected, always keep your promises. If you have taken up some business, do not leave it, do not give up at the last moment. Know how to calculate your time correctly. Don't say that you can help if you really don't have the opportunity. Also, do not let the person down without warning him that you will not be able to complete your plan. Circumstances may be different, call in advance if something does not add up.
Don't talk bad about other people, don't criticize them behind your back, be honest. Slander, comparison and ridicule do not characterize a person from the good side. Try not to start such conversations yourself, and not to participate if others begin to do so. The less negative you radiate, the better those around you perceive. Respect other people. If someone treats you disrespectfully, think, and with whom did you behave the same way? Usually the world reflects what we ourselves bring into it.
Respect is aroused by a person who knows how to behave culturally in different situations, for example, during a dinner in a restaurant or a party at a disco. It is pleasant to communicate with a person who can maintain a conversation, has an idea of different areas of life. Pay attention to looks, etiquette, speaking skills. All these qualities will help you earn respect, make you a very attractive person in the eyes of others.
Self respect
Never condemn yourself in front of other people. There is no need to make excuses and belittle your dignity. How can you respect a person if he does not treat himself with respect? Of course, you don't need to go to extremes, don't over-praise yourself, but don't hide your strengths either. Treat yourself adequately, with a share of criticism, but do not speak out loud about what you are changing in yourself.