Whether we are extroverted or introverted, there will always be those awkward moments in any conversation when there is nothing to say. Feelings of panic can only arise because we don't know how to keep the conversation going. A whole swarm of thoughts, but not a single one on business. A feeling of confusion can arise not only when communicating with a stranger, but also with someone who is well acquainted.
The ability to maintain dialogue is an important tool in maintaining close and trusting relationships with family and friends. A person, communication with whom is easy and natural, always inspires more confidence. If in everyday life a lot is forgivable, then communication in a professional environment should be verified to the smallest detail. When there is nothing to say, and a specific conversation requires your active participation in it, use methods and techniques that will help save the situation.
Don't know what to say - ask questions
This is the best way to avoid pauses in any conversation. People generally like to talk about themselves, not because they are selfish, but because this is the safest topic for them, especially since they know it very well.
Oddly enough, but such a way of communication most disposes of the interlocutor to you, because he feels your personal interest and direct participation. Topics for questions are given by the interlocutor himself by his appearance. Perhaps he has a tired look, some interesting accessory in clothes, a new gadget.
The point is to ask the interlocutor questions, the answers to which cannot be monosyllabic: yes or no. You will not only gain time, continue the dialogue, but also make the interlocutor look more friendly in your direction.
Rephrase what has already been said
If you were involved in a conversation, the topic of which is not very familiar, a couple of sentences with already expressed thoughts, but wrapped by you in a new, verbal shell, will help to avoid silence. In this case, the main thing is not to delve into the topic, otherwise you yourself can provide a chance to reproach you for inaccuracies. By speaking in the language of the interlocutor, you can create a sense of mutual understanding in that person that will only play into your hands.
