When relationships fail, sometimes it seems like there is nothing in life that can compensate for this loss. But love is not the only thing that can make our life joyful and fulfilling. How to be happy without love?
Instructions
Step 1
The idea that a woman's destiny is to get married as early as possible and devote herself to her husband, children and home is in many ways a "relic" of the old days. Back in the 19th century, for example, a woman was a dependent being, passing from the care of her father to the care of her husband. Now the situation has changed - and they no longer look askance at an unmarried lady, calling her "an old maid", but respectfully call her an "independent woman." And if there is no love in your life now, forget the expression “I am lonely”. Tell yourself: "I am free and independent!" And take full advantage of this freedom.
Step 2
Any relationship imposes restrictions on us. Now in your life these restrictions do not exist - and you have the right to dispose of your free time as you wish. Use this opportunity! If you, for example, have long dreamed of learning how to dance or ride a skateboard - do it right now, without delay. Write a list of your unfulfilled desires and develop a plan to turn what you want into reality.
Step 3
If you enjoy your job, take the time to your career. We have been thinking about changing the type of activity for a long time - now is the time to change the place of work or go to training courses. Then, when you have a family, husband, children, you will not be able to devote so much time and mental strength to your professional growth.
Step 4
Take care of yourself - health and shape. Only an independent girl can afford to fully sit on a diet, without being distracted by cooking chops with potatoes and other "male food". And the “second halves” often look at regular visits to the fitness club without much enthusiasm.
Step 5
Take pleasure in the little things around you. Morning birdsong under the window, favorite music, the smell of grass after the rain, a cup of aromatic coffee … All these little things can make us happy - you just need to learn to pay attention to them.
Step 6
Favorite work and hobbies, beauty and health, the ability to enjoy things that seem ordinary at first glance - all this will make you not only happy, but also … attractive to the opposite sex. And, as soon as you understand that romance is not at all necessary for you to feel great - men will "reach out" to you to bask in the rays of your optimism.
