Stubbornness and uncompromisingness are two of the biggest disadvantages in a person's character. Such people do not recognize the opinions of others, they consider their point of view to be the only correct one and not subject to discussion and refutation. It is for this reason that such people often remain completely alone, without anyone with whom to share their joys or sorrows.
However, this does not mean at all that the moment is missed and everything is lost, because you can always learn to behave differently and begin to communicate normally with the people around you. This will help the advice of experienced psychologists.
1. Before expressing your own opinion on any issue, first think about what you are going to say several times.
2. Learn to listen and understand what other panellists are saying.
3. Always remember that all people are different and reason differently. Everyone can be right in their own way, so don't be in a hurry to argue.
4. Remember that all people can be wrong, so don't use their mistakes against them.
5. Think back to when your problems with communicating with other people began and try to understand what caused this.
6. Understand exactly what you feel when you refute the words said by the interlocutor: joy, pride, sadness, irritation, etc. If you understand what feelings overwhelm you at this moment, then the reason for this behavior will become clear to you.
Reasons for not being able to reckon with other people's opinions
There may be several reasons why a person does not know how to listen and accept other people's arguments:
1. Selfishness. People with a selfish character are generally not used to accepting someone else's opinion, except for their own. They believe that everything they say is the truth of the last resort, and their words cannot be refuted.
2. Children's complexes. Quite often, children suffering from inferiority complexes or excessive shyness do not know how to find a common language with other people. When they grow up, they become withdrawn, uncompromising and stubborn, which prevents them from accepting the fact that other people can be right.
3. Wrong upbringing and permissiveness. When parents are too busy and do not have enough time to deal with the child, but only buy his love and affection, he learns to achieve what he wants in any way. Seeing that his parents indulge him in everything and do not argue, he realizes his superiority over people and learns to manipulate them. That is why in an adult, independent life, he does not know how to listen and agree with his interlocutors.
