If you notice that the people around you often do not take you seriously, perhaps even mock you, then you need to take drastic measures, first of all, in relation to yourself. How to attract attention and get people to take your opinion into account, you will learn from this article.
Instructions
Step 1
Love yourself.
Usually, those around you "mirror" what is inside you: they notice the uncertain intonation of the voice, look, gait. In this regard, urgently begin to form a positive attitude towards yourself. Do not forget to pay attention to your appearance: a well-groomed appearance demonstrates that you love yourself, which means that others will treat you with respect. Be sure to celebrate even your smallest achievement, reward yourself for success. This will give you strength and "weight" in society.
Step 2
Pay attention to yourself.
If you speak, and the people around you pretend that they do not hear you, then you should ask yourself the question: "What am I doing wrong?" Start doing the opposite. If you are sitting down, stand up, if your voice is barely audible, speak louder. Begin your speech with "I." For example: "I want to say …", "I ask for attention …".
Step 3
Speak about yourself with admiration.
Affirmations are very helpful - you create short statements like “I’m damn attractive,” “I’m persistent and can achieve a lot,” and so on. For the greatest effect, statements must be repeated as often as possible within two to three weeks.
Step 4
Respond to ridicule appropriately.
The purpose of a ridicule or an offensive remark is to cause confusion, anger, fear in you. Therefore, if you learn to ignore them, then the goal will not be achieved, and the scoffers will stop pestering you. You can try to parry the remark, and the offender will be knocked out.
