Love is not eternal, and when it comes to the understanding that it is gone, you need to take some action. Otherwise, the resulting emptiness will be replaced by not very positive feelings.
Love unites people, but it often happens that it leaves. However, a faded feeling can be revived, only for this you will have to take decisive steps, until a loved one turns into a stranger, and recent love is not replaced by hatred.
Return of old feelings
If love is gone, this does not mean that you need to immediately break off the relationship, since old feelings can still be revived. To do this, you should analyze the situation and understand what caused her leaving. Perhaps you should spend more time together, and then love will flare up again.
Feelings often cool down when a person does not like certain habits of his partner. In this case, you should not dwell on them, it is better to look at him with different eyes. Here it is recommended to take paper, a pen and write down those qualities of a loved one that you like in a column. You should also write down your good and bad habits. So, it will be possible to see the situation from several sides, after which the problem will disappear, and the feelings will return again, and with renewed vigor.
A break up
When love is gone, this feeling is replaced by others. It can be either respect or hatred. If negative feelings towards your partner have settled in your heart, then it is better to leave, since nothing good will come of this union. Parting in this case will be a relief for both. Believe me, it is better to part with friends than enemies. You should not bring yourself to this, you must try to leave without crossing this line. At this stage, it is still possible to agree, so do not miss the moment.
Temporary parting
Often, everyday life and everyday life kill even the most exalted feelings. In this situation, it is not uncommon for a couple to get tired of each other. Partners may think that love has disappeared, but it is not, it just faded into the background. In this case, a temporary separation will help. Each of the partners will be able to think over the current situation, and also decide for themselves whether it is worth continuing this relationship? Do they bring joy or are they burdensome?
Usually a month-long breakup sets priorities completely. Often couples cannot stand a week without each other, they start calling up, and the stronger half invites you on a date, gives flowers, looks after, and love blooms again. If within a month there was no desire to call, then you should come to terms with the departure of love and leave, since there are no past feelings, which means that you should not continue the relationship, which will still eventually lead to a break.
