Often we are simply afraid to admit to ourselves that the former feeling is no longer there, but sometimes we do not see the obvious things point-blank. Be attentive to yourself and to the little things, or use a little advice.
Instructions
Step 1
One of the first signs that family psychologists identify is the appearance of a negative reaction to what seemed to be cute before. For example, you have always liked your partner's hair or nose and suddenly it starts to piss you off and annoy you. You start to find more and more flaws and find fault with them. As they say, when they love, they even like the flaws. If you start to get annoyed with your partner's flaws, think twice.
Step 2
You stop liking body contact. It's not just about kissing and making love, but simple touching as well. You do not allow yourself to be hugged and stroked. Don't feel the need for touch. You are annoyed by the frequent attention to yourself from your partner. It is possible that you have severe depression or another medical condition that has caused you to lose the joy of socializing, but it is worth considering, the reason may be more obvious.
Step 3
Another point that will help you understand that love is leaving you is unwillingness to consider a partner. You lose the need for eye contact. At the beginning of the relationship, you wanted to constantly study the facial features of your partner, follow his movements, peer into his eyes. So, if feelings are really real, such manifestations will remain with you even after fifty years. Of course, you will not have this desire as often as at the beginning of the relationship, but it will definitely be. If this has not been done for more than a few months, then you are definitely cooling off to each other.
Step 4
Another point is the loss of interest in conversations. Conversations begin to be purely formal. They are getting shorter. More often than not, they are of an abstract nature. Often, partners later admit to relatives and friends that after conversations they feel tired, as if someone had emptied them and pulled all the energy out of them.
