At times, it can feel like the life you might be living is passing by. One has only to get together, see all the chances that fate gives you, decide on goals and take up your mind, how your standard of living will increase.
Instructions
Step 1
Think about what you want to achieve in life. Focus on your own desires and preferences, and not on what society dictates to you. Perhaps your some lack of initiative up to this point was the result of setting false goals. Your subconscious mind did not accept them, and without motivation, you had no incentive to act.
Step 2
Deal with your laziness. Get rid of the habit of putting off important things until tomorrow and getting ready to do something for a long time. Act, not rant about your desires and aspirations. Keep in mind that the human brain is designed in such a way that desires, to the realization of which you have not taken a single, even the smallest step within three days, he perceives as empty dreams. Therefore, the subconscious mind does not help you achieve some goals.
Step 3
Believe in your success. Without self-confidence, it will be difficult for you to act effectively. Set realistic, achievable goals. You, like no one else, know your abilities and talents. Plan your actions in proportion to them, and you will be calm about the result.
Step 4
Realize all the responsibility that you bear for your life. In both success and failure, you play the most important role. Once you understand that it is your thoughts and actions that determine the level of your well-being and how interesting and fulfilling your life will be, you will have more incentive to work on yourself and improve aspects of your existence.
Step 5
Don't think of working towards a goal as just hard work. It is also a fun process in which you grow, develop and transcend yourself. When you love learning and making plans for how to get what you want, then everything will turn out faster and easier for you.
Step 6
Be patient. Some people are chilled by the lack of quick results. Be realistic and don't expect a miracle. Then you will not be disappointed ahead of time and do not give up at the moment when a small step separates you to success.
Step 7
Develop. Look at the pace at which modern technologies are moving forward, how the lexicon is increasing, how much richer spiritually people have become, and how easy it is to get any information using the Internet, all kinds of training courses or from books. Do not miss any opportunity to become smarter, more educated, more aware. Cultivate a useful curiosity. Don't be indifferent to what is happening around you.
Step 8
Analyze what is preventing you from becoming the person you want to be in your lifestyle today. Ruthlessly discard such time wasters as useless sitting in front of a TV screen or computer monitor, too frequent gatherings in cafes and bars, communication with people who do not contribute to your development and do not even give you positive emotions from your regular daily routine.
