In our computer age, when relationships seem to have become pragmatic and simplistic, girls are still the girls you might have read about in good books. They still love flowers, cute trinkets, and of course compliments. The ability to do them correctly is not as easy as it might seem at first glance.
Sincerity
Girls are sensitive to deception and flattery, if you compliment insincerely, then you will achieve nothing but disappointment. Complement will be correctly perceived only when done with desire and from the heart. If at the moment there is nothing to say, then it is better to remain silent and not try to come up with something absurd. The real compliment is not the usual set of beautiful words, but what you want to say to the girl at the moment. What you really like about her and what you admire.
Attention
Your girlfriend changed her hair, dyed her hair, got a new manicure. Men very often do not notice this or simply do not attach much importance to these events. This is a big mistake. These events are quite significant for a girl, and when she meets you, she just needs to know what you think about it. A man should be attentive to the changes that have occurred to his girlfriend since their last meeting. Don't wait for her to ask you. You should be the first to say something nice about her new look. Perhaps she did it, including that you would like it.
Non-standard
Having met a girl, you can say that she looks great. Such a compliment will be like a joke about a white back. Beaten and almost emotionless. Look closely at her, perhaps she is somehow smiling especially today or her eyes are shining with joy. So use these details when you compliment. The girl will immediately understand that this is not an ordinary phrase, but the words of a person who looks at her carefully and with sincere interest. After all, think back to Sherlock Holmes and pay attention to detail.
Compliments
For example, a girl came in a new dress, you noticed it and want to say something nice to her. Do not hold back, but praise not just her suit, but tell how it suits her, how it emphasizes the color of her eyes and how it goes with them. Clothes not only adorn the girl, but also give her more charm, sophistication and charm. By saying this, you are not just praising her new outfit, but complimenting her taste, her ability to dress or comb her hair beautifully when it comes to a new hairstyle.
You can tell the girl that she is lovely or that she has wonderful eyes. This, of course, is always good to hear. But at the same time, it just looks like a listing of its merits. It is much more correct to report that you really like her eyes, that it is you who consider her adorable and charming. Then the pleasant emotions that your words aroused in her will be associated with you and with your attitude towards her.
Less is Better
This catchphrase is very relevant to the topic at hand. The compliment should be like a berry on the cake of your relationship, and not the usual buns that can quickly become boring. Strictly dose their number, the girl should wait for them, and not bump into them at the most inopportune time. Complimenting is an art that can be mastered and will always help in a relationship. Learn and do not be afraid to say something nice to the girl, from this you will only benefit in her eyes.
