Having set a goal, a person often imagines how they feel about achieving it. Joy, meaning of life, or at least satisfaction and inspiration to move on, set new goals. However, real feelings do not always correspond to the expected ones, and sometimes disappointment comes along with the fulfillment of a dream. How can you avoid this?
Instructions
Step 1
Remain open to correcting your goal. Life does not stand still, and at any moment you may have a fresh vision of the desired state.
Step 2
Give your external goal only second place. Let the first one always have the desire to live the present moment with the best quality.
This approach will be a powerful trump card in your sleeve: you will achieve the best result, you are guaranteed to avoid disappointment, and you can enjoy life now.
Step 3
Pay attention to how the chosen path to your dream affects you. Does it fit your outlook on life? What kind of person does it turn into?
By a stranger's path, you are unlikely to come to a place that seems like home.
Step 4
A dream is a way of life. It is not bad to wait for the achievement of what you want, but what is happening to you should always worry you more.
Check if you are enjoying the process of creating it?
Step 5
Don't compromise on other areas of your life for the sake of your dream. This is especially true of human relations. The treasure obtained at such a price will hardly delight you for a long time.
Step 6
Set universal goals for yourself that will ensure success in all circumstances. For example, to achieve which you will need to work on your character or acquire useful skills.
Step 7
Let go of expectations. Use the trinity principle: imagine the desired outcome, the worst outcome that exceeds all expectations, and again what you planned.
This technology works powerfully at the energy level: by making you ready for anything, it multiplies the likelihood of fulfilling the desired option.
Step 8
Come up with a backup plan. What will you do if you are defeated? According to the scenario analysis, this is the difference between the Winner and the Loser: the Winner knows what he will do in case of failure, but is silent about it, the Loser does not know and speaks about what he will do when he wins.
Step 9
Make sure that the goal you are striving for is “the one”. Disappointment is inevitable when efforts are spent on something that is unnecessary and “for free”.
