Learning to make decisions is very important for every person, and especially for a girl, since strong character traits are not always given to us by nature. But once you decide to be decisive, no matter how strange it sounds, and you will notice that you are very good at it.
Instructions
Step 1
Indecision is born out of fear that as a result of what you have done, you may appear in an unfavorable light or let people down. The understanding will come to help you that no universal catastrophe will happen with any of your decisions, those around you will understand you, and you will draw the necessary life conclusions.
Step 2
If it is necessary to make a decision where the so-called question of life and death is being resolved, it is necessary to treat this choice not as something super-significant, but as if you were choosing a dress for a prom. If you lose your mind from the importance of the matter, you overexert yourself and fall into despair, then in such a state it makes no sense to make any choice. First, take the meaning out of what is happening.
Step 3
Weigh the pros and cons by honestly evaluating each side. Give yourself time and during the day write down all the thoughts that are simultaneously born in your head. In the option where the advantages clearly outweigh, do not hesitate and do just that.
Step 4
If the number of pros and cons is approximately equal, consult with loved ones. But don't listen to them completely, take their opinions only as additions to your pros and cons. Trust yourself no less than others, since only you will be responsible for your decision.
Step 5
You, of course, know that it is easier to advise than to make decisions yourself. And try to imagine that your friend told your situation, and you need to give her advice. You will look at the situation from the outside, you will be able to assess it more objectively and make the right choice.
Step 6
It happens that all reasonable ways of making a decision do not help in any way, but only confuse more. In this case, it is worth surrendering to the hands of fate. For example, roll the dice. If, as a result, the decision is wrong, you can at least say that you relied on fate, and she judged that way.
Step 7
In addition to fate, you can take intuition as an assistant, because it is known that in women it is especially developed. Just write a few options on paper and look at them. The one that you like best will decide the outcome of events.
Step 8
Remember, was there nothing like this in your life before? Maybe you have made a similar choice in the past and the decision has been made. Use your positive experiences and do the same.
Step 9
If you are wrong and your decision turns out to be wrong, do not be discouraged. Each person learns only from their mistakes, so now that you know what to do and have drawn the appropriate conclusions, next time your decision will be correct, balanced and quick.
