Decisiveness is one of the manifestations of will. She is at the same time capable of disciplining a person and allowing her to commit acts that seem reckless at first glance. However, not everyone is ready to turn their lives around with one or more decisions.
Instructions
Step 1
Nobody is born with this quality. He has to be brought up in himself either due to forced circumstances, or in order to train his will for possible surprises that life will bring in the future. Having made a decision, a person of strong will stubbornly walks and reaches the finish line, and an insecure person will justify failures by external circumstances.
Step 2
Indeed, circumstances play a serious role in our life. Often they are able to unsettle a person (illness, death of loved ones, forced relocation, hostilities, bankruptcy). However, you should not dwell on thoughts of possible misfortune. It is important to understand that a person has only one life. Nobody knows a lot or a little. But it is in your power to make it as rich as possible.
Step 3
If you are accustomed to weighing all the pros and cons, to think about making a decision for a long time, you hardly take risks, then, most likely, you will be led astray by external factors or you yourself will get bored with your goal. She must be cherished. And its wording does not sound "by the way, why not," but "everything will work out."
Step 4
Want to make an adventurous decision, but worry that it will put your whole life on the line? Think seriously: what does this idea mean to you? Is one a real goal or an ordinary desire? Be able to distinguish between these concepts. The goal is always thought out, backed up by a mass of necessary information, day and night it stands indestructible in consciousness, and nothing can shake your resolve to achieve it. Desire, on the other hand, is a hazy haze, a kind of gift that out of nowhere should fall on you from the sky.
Step 5
Once you've made your decision, take action. Typically, the difficulty arises from an inner voice that whispers: "It won't work." It is natural to be afraid. There is not a single sane person, regardless of his social status and the size of his wallet, who would not shake his knees on the way to his "crazy" idea. By the way, all great people, before making a decision, clearly realized that a long journey begins with one step, that a mighty oak grows from a small acorn, and that an elephant needs to be eaten in parts. Take note of and show your own example of a decisive person.
