People who make a good impression in the process of communication, as a rule, achieve much more in life than gloomy and unsociable individuals. However, in order to please others, you need to know and follow a number of fairly simple rules.
Instructions
Step 1
First of all, try to behave in the process of communication with sufficient restraint. Hot-tempered people, of course, are much easier to "discharge", but those around them are always wary of such individuals.
Step 2
Gradually learn to hide negative emotions. This is a rather difficult task, but if you look at a person with contempt, indifference or with derision, you are unlikely to be able to get in touch with him. At the same time, try to always remember that you can cause conflicting impressions in other people.
Step 3
Never forget to smile. In some cases, it is worth acting as if you are a dancer on stage and smiling constantly. Under other circumstances, a smile will be appropriate from time to time. But always remember that your interlocutor will be much more pleased to see a smiling face.
Step 4
When communicating in any situation, never allow yourself to develop thoughts about how beneficial this communication is to you. Try to always act naturally and show interest in conversations, even if you're not really interested.
Step 5
Try to always rely on your strengths. That is, if you are not a master at telling jokes, then it is better to sincerely laugh at the funny stories performed by others. Feel free to talk a little about yourself and your life. Remember, stealth is always repulsive.
Step 6
Try to criticize others as little as possible and praise yourself. Critics, especially unfounded ones, people don't like. Moreover, they cannot stand the laudatory monologues from those who do it all the time.
Step 7
In each conversation, before expressing your own opinion, think a little and listen to the reasoning of others to the end. Moreover, in the course of the conversation, new circumstances may become clear, and your speech will seem inappropriate.
Step 8
As much as you want to please others, don't try to be attractive and charming all the time. Be yourself, just always pay attention to others.
