Smart people have long understood that success often comes to those who know how to communicate with people, to make a pleasant impression on them. And the point is not even that a polite person does not want to do nasty things, but that he is positively disposed, ready to accept gifts of fate.
Instructions
Step 1
If you want to be a pleasant conversationalist, try to treat others not only with respect, but also with sympathy. Believe me, people feel how they are treated and, by the way, react accordingly: you hate them, so why should they love you?
Step 2
Remember that although man called himself the crown of creation, he is not far from animals in terms of development. He divides the whole world into "his" and "enemies", is afraid of attack and seeks to surpass others, like a hunter, conquering the best prey. Try not to interfere with people to realize themselves as a "getter": give in in disputes. Do not show aggression, so as not to turn into an enemy that must be destroyed.
Step 3
Watch your gestures as you talk. Believe me, the interlocutor pays attention to them no less than to the words you utter. By the way, some men argue that if the woman did not gesticulate while talking to them, she would quickly get bored with them.
Step 4
Read as many books and magazines as possible to be able to support any conversation. However, do not overdo it: it is not at all necessary to study scientific works on electromechanics, since you are unlikely to often communicate with experts in this field. In addition to reading books, spend time watching movies, visiting museums and theaters. The more impressions you have, the better: a person who is keen on something often infects others with his emotions.
Step 5
It is very difficult to be a pleasant interlocutor for a person who suffers from speech defects or simply has an unpleasant voice and fuzzy diction. Train your vocal cords, say a few tongue twisters every day and read books aloud: after a couple of months, your diction will improve markedly. If you want your speech to be flawless, say monologues alone with yourself.
Step 6
Last but not least, remember to smile when talking to people. A smile can work miracles!
