Communication is an integral part of people's lives. Therefore, it is so important to strive to ensure that any conversation is enjoyable. And it is pleasant to conduct a dialogue only on topics of interest and with a good interlocutor.
Instructions
Step 1
Monitor your speech. She must be polite and competent. Eliminate parasitic words and abusive expressions. Control your tone and pronunciation speed. Read more, expand your vocabulary, learn to correctly formulate your thoughts. Broaden your horizons, educate yourself, stay up to date with the news.
Step 2
Listen carefully to your interlocutor. Delving into the essence of his phrases, you must understand what is at stake. Insert small lines from time to time, nod to show your participation, but do not unnecessarily interrupt his monologue. Encourage the interlocutor with phrases such as "I understand", "continue", "yes, yes." Do not rush to express your opinion until your interlocutor finishes, do not make final conclusions for him. Try to remember at least some of the details of your conversation, and during the next meeting, mention the details of the previous conversation.
Step 3
Look at who you are communicating with. Be nice and smiling. Do not be distracted during a conversation - do not read, do not look out the window or at the clock, do not talk on the phone.
Step 4
Start with a compliment, but be sincere. Try to find common topics of conversation with the person that interest you two. At the same time, avoid controversial situations. For example, talking about politics, nationality, religion. Take an interest in the interlocutor's family affairs, his success at work. But don't be overly intrusive.
Step 5
Pay attention to your body language. Your arms should not be crossed. Keep straight, look straight. Don't show your impatience. Manage your emotions during conversation.
Step 6
Don't repeat yourself. Do not tell the same life stories, strangers, or your own jokes over and over again.
Step 7
Thank the other person at the end of the conversation. Try to leave him in a good mood so that he is pleased with the communication with you and wants to meet again.
