It is unpleasant to hear insults in your address. However, in the process of communication, this sometimes happens. This can be due to various reasons, ranging from problems at work to family relationships.
By humiliating others, a person seeks to rise. The desire to offend another person arises in an individual against the background of his own low self-esteem. Thus, he wants to compensate for the internal discomfort, and "feed" the energy of the offended person. A similar need may arise for the following reasons:
- childhood traumatic experience
This is the most common variation that forms low self-esteem and a desire to offend another individual. For a long time, the baby is humiliated, convincing him that he is insignificant. Subsequently, he will communicate in this way with his children, friends, work colleagues, etc.
- unhealthy family environment
Family is the most important thing in the life of almost any person. There we rest, look for support and protection. Therefore, it is precisely the grievances inflicted in the family that it is so difficult to get rid of in the soul. If a person is constantly insulted by relatives, then this creates a gap in the emotional background, makes the individual more aggressive and intolerant of other people.
- severe psychological trauma
Sometimes in a person's life there is a strong emotional crisis under the influence of external circumstances. After him, the personality will never be the same. Unfortunately, often people, after suffering the blows of life, draw the wrong conclusions and become bitter.
You should realize that insulting another person will not get rid of your own destructive attitudes and beliefs.
