It often happens that people who are close in spirit lose interest in each other. The reluctance to maintain a relationship is justified by personal-emotional categories that interfere with interaction and communication. These categories are usually formed at the level of human intuition in accordance with inner sensations.
1. Too much in common
When two people have too many common points of contact: interests, hobbies, preferences, emotional characteristics, then at the beginning of their interaction, mutual disposition towards each other is felt, but gradually mutual interest decreases. Indeed, in order for people to be able to fully communicate, one must have not only common characteristics, but also opposite qualities.
2. Awareness of their problems
Very often we find our own problems and shortcomings in a person with a similar character, something that we have been trying to get rid of for a long time. This creates emotional tension in mutual contact and immediately at the moment of exacerbation of problematic issues.
3. Online communication
Sometimes it happens that for some reason we communicate with a person only through social networks and other means of communication. This makes the communication process less open, since without visual contact, feelings, emotions and words are transmitted in a distorted manner.
4. Avoiding reality
Often there is a departure from reality in the process of communicating with a spiritually close person, since common interests and views of the world, attempts to understand the inner world are put in the foreground.
5. Predictability of behavior
There is an interdependence between people that interferes with their normal life. But very often the need for constant communication is the transition to the next stage - all kinds of attempts to get rid of it. All this happens due to the fact that people who are spiritually close to us are very predictable, and all their actions, words and deeds can be predetermined in advance, therefore, interest in communication disappears.
