At one point, you realize that you cannot live like this and that something needs to be radically changed in life. But now you need to understand what of what does not suit you is the cause and what is the effect. The reasons for your failure need to be addressed in order to fix your life and bring it in line with your ideas of happiness.
Instructions
Step 1
If you think that nothing depends on you, then you are very mistaken. Lack of faith in yourself and your strength is the root cause of many of your life difficulties and failures. Success in life depends only on yourself, take responsibility for it and start taking action to achieve success.
Step 2
If you are not satisfied with your life, then you probably belong to the category of pessimists. Positive thinking distinguishes successful people from those who consider themselves to be a failure. The ability to appreciate what you have and have achieved is simply necessary for you. Take a look around - you have loved ones who love you, friends who care about you. Tune in to a positive perception of reality and program your mind for success. Communicate less with angry and envious people, find yourself something to do that you will enjoy, just walk more often - and there will be much more positive emotions in your life.
Step 3
Control your emotions and don't let stress take over you, your mood, your behavior and your attitude to the world. Don't let troubles spoil your temper and nerves. A fit of rage and anger can be relieved even by breathing exercises. Do not waste your mental strength on something that cannot be fixed, learn to perceive philosophically and calmly treat difficulties and obstacles, for you they should be just a barrier that must be overcome on the way to your goal.
Step 4
Define for yourself the goals that you want to achieve in life. Have a plan to achieve them. Correct those character traits in yourself that prevent you from doing this. Develop those qualities of character that will help you in life - purposefulness, perseverance, responsibility, professionalism. Act, not spend your life in fruitless lamentation over fate.
