Life is a striped zebra. The white stripe regularly changes to black, and the black to white. But, sometimes, the clouds thicken, the colors fade, and there is no glimpse among bad luck and setbacks. This can happen to anyone. The main thing is to be able to endure life's trials with honor and get rid of the lingering black streak.
Necessary
- Paper;
- pen.
Instructions
Step 1
To begin with, change your attitude towards the events of your life. What a person thinks happens to him. This is not magic. With their thoughts, people influence their behavior, and by their actions they provoke a change in reality in one direction or another. Therefore, always think only in a positive way, do not allow thoughts of failure, treat failure as a temporary phenomenon and a source of experience.
Step 2
Believe in yourself. Disbelief in yourself is another way to attract trouble. Its scheme of action is similar to that described above. To get rid of the black streak in life, do not doubt that you deserve only good things, and also that you will definitely be able to achieve this.
Step 3
Don't complain. Starting to complain and feel sorry for yourself, you relax, allowing yourself to give up the struggle, give up. In addition, this behavior repels the people around you, depriving you of full support.
Step 4
Take responsibility for your actions. Only you can make your life better or worse. And circumstances can always be turned in your favor.
Step 5
Live in the present. Memories of past events and dreams of the future will in no way help you change your present, building the kind of life you dream about. To get rid of the black streak in life, focus on what is happening around you at the moment, on what you can do to overcome difficulties.
Step 6
If you want to solve your problems, realize that their cause lies in you, in your behavior, in your actions. Only by being responsible for your actions will you have an impact on what happens to you.
Step 7
Once you accept the problem, make a clear plan of action to solve the problem. Divide complex cases into several small ones and set specific deadlines. And having made a plan, start to translate it into reality to get rid of the black bar.