The modern world creates certain stereotypes. Every woman compares herself with the created standard and always finds a discrepancy. And the point is not in extra pounds or centimeters, but in the fact that the invented image is rarely found in real life.
Glossy magazines, catwalks and movies feature amazing beauties who don't have a single extra fold. They look gorgeous, their figures can be envied, and men admire just such pictures. And around hundreds of salons offer to change forms, remove unnecessary and build up what is so lacking. An ordinary woman, having got into such a flow of information, simply cannot help but begin to develop complexes.
How the perfect look is created
Before any photo session, stylists work on the star. They make beautiful makeup that hides all skin imperfections, create perfect styling so that every hair is in place. Designers choose the right costumes, and the photographer recommends the necessary poses. But the main work begins later, when the Photoshop masters bring the images to perfection. It turns out that the pictures in magazines are not real shots, but simply high-quality work of many people. But they are presented to society as an ideal.
Men also see these pictures, it is women with ideal forms that seem to them the best. They are forced to believe that the owners of the right size will make their status higher, will allow them to appear better in the eyes of others. They do not care about character, habits, attention, they are attracted only by their appearance. Compliance or similarity with what is broadcast on TV guarantees a girl a quick marriage. Internal values were replaced with external ones.
Today, an entire industry is working to create an attractive facade. Many people earn money on non-compliance with the ideal: gyms, plastic surgeons, beauty salons and even magicians who offer to get rid of excess weight. Women spend up to 50% of their budget on the beauty industry, because advertising constantly insists that you need to be perfect and not deny yourself very important attributes of the image: cosmetics, fashionable clothes.
Why does a woman consider herself fat
The image of a slender beauty is emphasized in a variety of ways. Modern fashion designers often create things only in small sizes. A woman with ordinary forms is not always able to pick up things for herself, because they turn out to be too tight and uncomfortable. Trying on such clothes, she feels very fat.
Comparing herself to the image in magazines, she also realizes that her forms are not quite perfect. At the same time, it may not be complete, but the presence of deviations from the invented norm causes discomfort. But you need to understand that there are practically no ladies with the advertised proportions, they are selected at the casting of models, but they are the exception, not the rule.
A woman considers herself fat when her man stares at slender girls. She thinks that she is becoming not too desirable for her beloved, therefore she is complex. But it is important to understand that those who are younger will always be more beautiful and brighter, age makes people different, and one should not try to keep youth, but learn to emphasize maturity.
