It often happens that a person seems to be doing well both at work and in his personal life. But he constantly experiences some kind of mental discomfort, is dissatisfied with something. This happens because a person cannot find himself, realize himself. That is, he has not yet realized his main purpose in life. For each person, this awareness means something of his own, purely personal. Someone sees the meaning of life in making a good career, for someone the main thing is moral improvement.
Instructions
Step 1
You can, of course, expect that an insight will suddenly dawn on you, and you yourself realize what you should do. But it is better to take the initiative and try to understand where your place in life is. Be sure to listen to your inner voice. This is especially important when choosing a profession.
Step 2
Do not let anyone, even the closest people, put pressure on you with arguments such as: "All men in our family were officers, and you do not need to break this tradition!" or "The profession of a doctor is necessary and noble, and you will never be left without a piece of bread." If you do not feel the slightest inclination to such activities, resolutely refuse. Choose the business that you like.
Step 3
If you realize that you are simply doing something other than your own business, that work does not bring you the slightest joy, leave it without regret. Yes, it is sometimes very difficult: there are material losses, and disapproval of relatives, loved ones, misunderstanding of friends, acquaintances. But still, find the strength and endurance in yourself to do this.
Step 4
Try to do what you really have a penchant for. After all, you probably have some kind of hobby, hobby.
Step 5
Constantly instill in yourself: “I am an independent person, I am free in my decisions. I don't have to think all the time about how others will react. If they don't like my choice, that's their problem."
Step 6
Be bolder. Too many people cannot find themselves for a long time precisely because they are afraid of failing, getting into an awkward position, becoming a laughing stock. Vigorously drive away such fears. Remember helpful examples that might inspire you. For example, Lomonosov was not afraid that they would laugh at him: the guy is 20 years old, just right to marry, but decided to study Latin with little kids. As a result, he became a great scientist, glorified Russian science.
Step 7
Trust yourself. "If others succeed, I will succeed too!" - this rule should become a guiding star for you. At the same time, of course, assess your capabilities soberly, do not forget about common sense.
