Obscene language sometimes more capaciously expresses the emotional state of the speaker than any other literary word. However, speaking obscenities means showing your ignorance, moreover, disrespect for people. How to be able to stop yourself in time?
Instructions
Step 1
The root cause of swearing is a poor vocabulary. Reading can be a salvation. If you don't like reading, get into the habit of “swallowing” at least a few pages of a work of fiction, preferably classical or 20th century fiction. What kind of literature it will be - foreign or domestic - there is no difference. Read what you like best, this process should not be torture for you. Reading perfectly replenishes vocabulary with new lexical units. Soon you yourself will realize that it has become easier for you to express your thoughts in words. And the people around you will notice that you have become an interesting storyteller.
Step 2
Do not use newspaper materials or communication on the Internet as replenishment of the vocabulary. The newspaper style over time becomes more simplified, and this is justified, because the media for the most part state facts, diluting them with a minimum of literary techniques of artistic means. And Internet communication has long become the basis for the creation of more and more simplified variants of words, and the format of correspondence on the Web is often not limited by ethical standards.
Step 3
Come up with euphemisms. In the case of severe fright or, for example, pain, express everything that you wanted to say with a "choice mother" in other words - literary and more smoothed. Draw them again from the inexhaustible depths of fiction.
Step 4
If you use obscene language, addressing or speaking about someone, you risk getting a response in the form of legal proceedings for insulting the personality, honor or dignity of a particular person. To wean yourself directly to your person. Is it pleasant for you to hear this addressed to you? How do you react not with these words? “The word is not a sparrow,” as they said in Russia. Keep your speech clear to avoid unpleasant situations.
