Usually at school we not only gnaw at the granite of science and master the knowledge of Newton's laws and grammar, but we are constantly in a group of peers. It is here that communication skills are born and the first steps are taken to achieve leadership in a peer society.
Instructions
Step 1
Regardless of whether you have been transferred to a new school or have been studying in your class for a long time, you are unlikely to be able to fall in love with your classmates or classmates if you do not create your image as an authority and leader in their heads. But for this you have to work hard on yourself.
Step 2
Start small. Become the best at the subject that is easiest for you. Listen carefully to the teacher, prepare your homework impeccably, be sure to read extra-curricular additional literature on a given topic. This will kill two birds with one stone. First, you will have good grades in at least this subject. Secondly, you will certainly attract the attention of your classmates. Surely, many of them will ask you to help them better understand the topic or help with their homework. They will begin to depend on you to some extent, I will respect and strive to become your friends. Don't overdo your desire to help. In this case, you will achieve the opposite effect, and they will sit on your head.
Step 3
Take care of your appearance if you haven't already. Try, if funds permit, dress fashionably and tastefully. If not, try to earn extra money in the summer on vacation or in your free time and change your wardrobe. There are enough vacancies for schoolchildren on the Internet. You can distribute flyers, work as a salesman, as a waiter, and find yourself a remote job at home. Develop your own personal style. Let him be at least somewhat different from your peers. If you succeed in this, over time, they will start to imitate you. This means that leadership in this matter will be provided to you.
Step 4
Learn to help others deal with contentious and difficult situations in the classroom. If you are a guy, be sure to enroll in the martial arts section. Playing sports will help you shape up correctly, and you will definitely gain self-confidence. Both girls and boys can read books on psychology. The knowledge gained will help you better understand peers and teach you methods of conflict resolution. If you succeed in this matter and your opinion becomes the ultimate truth, consider that universal love and success are guaranteed to you.
Step 5
Infect peers with your example. Study well, educate yourself, get yourself a hobby. Try to always be on horseback and not fall face down in the mud. Be able to seem more colorful, brilliant and larger than you really are. Don't overdo it. Otherwise, either your success will become too jealous, or your behavior will start to annoy. If you play badly, you will look somewhat ridiculous. Behave in a friendly and natural way. Be yourself, but try to be the best you can be.
