The ability to communicate correctly and achieve your goals is a whole art. Someone is given this without much effort, solely due to natural charisma, while someone needs to master useful skills. By memorizing a few simple tips, you can quickly win over any interlocutor.
Be friendly and confident. It is not necessary to demonstrate a Hollywood smile; you can smile with just your eyes. Radiate fluids of sincere benevolence - and they will certainly reach the interlocutor.
During a conversation, your gaze should be approximately at the level of the interlocutor's eyes, but, of course, you should not hypnotize the interlocutor with a gaze.
Listen to the interlocutor more than speak yourself. Ask tactful questions if you know what is interesting and relevant for the interlocutor. If the person is not familiar to you, then it is better not to touch on personal topics. Try not to interrupt, and if necessary, be sure to apologize.
Try not to gesticulate actively, rather express your emotions with a look, light movements, voice. How the interlocutor perceives you depends more on the sound of the voice than on other factors. Information delivered in a low soft voice is much more effective at achieving the desired goal than piercing high intonations.
It is advisable to pronounce the interlocutor's name more often - this is the most desirable sound in the world for any person, but do not abuse it.
Learn interesting communication techniques: when the other person finishes a phrase, you repeat the end of this phrase aloud. Try to catch the rhythm of the interlocutor's breathing and breathe with him at the same time. And one more thing: try to blink as soon as the interlocutor blinks. Practice with friends to make it look absolutely natural, and then you can quickly get on the same wave of communication with any interlocutor.
