Compliments, flowers, walks - this is how a relationship usually begins. But if a woman does not respond favorably to your courtship, you will have to work hard and come up with more effective ways to gain her favor.
Instructions
Step 1
Be persistent and consistent. Let the lady know that what you are experiencing is not a short-term interest, but something more. Perhaps, she has already happened to be burned in a relationship before, and this is what determines her inaccessibility. Do not intrude, but day after day continue to show her attention: help open the door, give compliments.
Step 2
Listen to what the person you are interested in is talking about. Remember which books she prefers, which cafes she goes to, which song can make her cry, how many brothers and sisters she has, who her parents work and where her beloved cat broke his paw. Such information will be of interest only to a truly in love person, and their knowledge will be another argument in your favor.
Step 3
Give her exactly what she wants. The young lady let slip that a book by her favorite writer is coming out - have time to order a copy, and if possible, then also with the author's autograph. When you walked by the pastry shop together, the girl of your dreams looked at the cakes - buy her a box of them at lunchtime. She mentioned that she has a cold - bring some throat lozenges and herbal tea. Surround her with care and attention, and she is unlikely to be able to remain indifferent.
Step 4
Watch your appearance. Girls like clean and nice-smelling men in neat clothes - the rest depends on the tastes of the particular young lady. Inadvertently take an interest in what external characteristics of a man are distinguished by a woman you like. If possible, you can approach her ideal.
Step 5
Make it clear to the young lady that you can be relied on. If you promised to fix her laptop or help with a project, keep your promise, even if you yourself have to call the master. In turn, do not hesitate to periodically ask the lady for help yourself. People tend to appreciate what they put their time and effort into.
Step 6
Showcase your talents. Whether you are taking part in a scientific conference, a competition for young performers or a knight's tournament, invite a girl there too. Let her see for herself what an interesting and versatile person you are.
Step 7
There is a chance that, despite all your efforts, the girl will remain cold to you. If your efforts do not bring results, and you cannot win the girlish disposition in any way, manage to stop in time, go through a heartfelt drama and turn your attention to other young ladies.
