We are used to relying heavily on outside opinions. How often do we ask for advice from more fortunate relatives and experienced girlfriends. But in fact, their advice is not better than ours, and here's why.
Learn from bad experiences
It is sad to realize, but the reason for everything that happened in your life is yourself. So, first of all, you should study yourself, your character, analyze your behavior in a given situation and try to find the root of your failures in yourself. An outside opinion will not give you this opportunity, since each person sees the same situation from his own angle.
Try it all yourself
The success of life depends a lot on luck. It often happens that your friend or acquaintance fails in some business, and you automatically transfer the possibility of failure to yourself. In fact, this is not worth doing, since where one is unlucky, the other may well be lucky. Even if we don't even talk about luck, it is worth considering that innate abilities are different for everyone. Perhaps in the area in which your acquaintance did not cope, it is you who will achieve resounding success.
Live playfully
A string of failures can unsettle anyone. If you compare yourself and your more successful acquaintances during this period of your life, willy-nilly you will think that they know more about life than you do and can give good advice. But they don't know anything about your life; you absolutely cannot guarantee that they would have achieved the same success, being in your place. So try to treat life with humor so as not to become limp. If you extract the positives from each of your mistakes and do not give up trying to change your life, most likely, one day you will succeed.
Mistakes were, are and will be
Life is a very unpredictable thing. Relationships can break down and your heart will break again. Business can go down and you lose everything. Your life can suddenly turn 180 degrees, and you find yourself in a completely unenviable position. It just so happened that even if you adhere to the advice of famous people who have achieved great heights with one hundred percent dedication, you still will not protect yourself from mistakes. So learn to solve your problems on your own and deal with your life without other people's advice.
