The plague of the twenty-first century is loneliness. Despite the abundance of means of communication, people are increasingly moving away from each other, and the fear of being alone appears more and more often. Only one who learns to value himself, his life and the people around him can cope with it and improve his life.
Instructions
Step 1
Don't shut yourself up. There are many reasons forcing people to refuse to communicate with the world around them. But whatever reason you have, you have to fight it. Do not focus on your problems, live in the present, not the past, open up to the world, and it will definitely step towards you.
Step 2
Be friendly. Treat people the way you would like them to treat you. The simple law of reflection, known in psychology for a long time, is that you will receive emotions, feelings, actions and so on reflected by you personally. Therefore, give people at least a small chance to prove themselves, start unencumbered conversations and keep an eye on others.
Step 3
Tune in for the best. Thoughts are material, and everything that you scroll in your head will sooner or later become reality. Therefore, think positively, make grandiose plans for the future, where there is no place for loneliness and boredom, but there is a huge space for love and friendship.
Step 4
Love yourself. Accept your "I", do not give up on it and do not try to overcome it. For starters, become interesting to yourself, have a hobby, start learning languages, or go into physics. If you consider your life interesting and exciting, then other fans of it will be found pretty quickly.
Step 5
Do not hesitate at every step when you find yourself a match. If fate has given you a companion, you should not immediately think that this is not your soul mate. Each person has flaws that not everyone is willing to put up with. But if you are ready, you do not need to make tragedies out of every wrongdoing.
Step 6
Fight the obsession with getting married. This is typical of girls brought up in a certain style. They are the ones who are most afraid of loneliness and believe that by finding a husband, they will solve all problems. Understand that this is not the case. Your problems belong only to you, and you will have to deal with them alone. First, get rid of complexes, and only then boldly step into the future, arm in arm with a handsome prince, who will undoubtedly appear on the horizon.
Step 7
Try not to peek your soul mate in the crowd. Do not rush at every handsome guy within a hundred meters in order not to be left alone, this approach will lead to disastrous consequences. Appreciate and respect yourself, take care of your own life, and do not follow someone else in search of a scenario that suits you. The less you think about looking for a boyfriend or girlfriend, the sooner you will spot several worthy candidates for this role.
