Eternal love is the desire of many people, especially those who are planning to start a family. After all, they understand that strong relationships last for years. Unfortunately, for some, this feeling cannot be preserved. But there are couples who manage to live together all their lives and remain happy. How can one achieve always love?
Instructions
Step 1
Do not be alarmed if feelings after the candy-bouquet period have cooled down and become a little mundane. The feeling of elation and admiration cannot be experienced forever. Passion will subside, but love will remain, it will simply change somewhat - it will be strong and calm. Respect, the desire to take care of each other, the desire to have children will replace the delight of lovers.
Step 2
Avoid conflicts. Even the happiest couples quarrel sometimes. Don't think that every problem is a divorce. On the contrary, by working together to compromise, you strengthen the relationship. It takes time to get used to the character of a loved one. Perhaps over the years you will learn to achieve mutual understanding without words, and even more so, shouts. Do not withdraw into yourself. Often mutual reproaches and resentments lead to silence - this is a mistake that can lead to separation. Whatever the situation may be, it is better to resolve it by peacefully discussing it.
Step 3
Try not to focus on the flaws of the other half. Understand that there are no perfect people. Before you find fault with trifles, look at yourself from the outside - after all, you are not an angel either. Better find a reason for praise. Pleasant words make you strive for good deeds.
Step 4
Find yourself a hobby. Sometimes spending time together can be annoying. Not because feelings have passed, but because sometimes you need to rest even from close people. Let your beloved (beloved) go to friends or relatives for a while. Read a book yourself, cook something, go shopping, in general, have a good time. It is possible that you will even have time to get bored - the more pleasant the meeting will be.
Step 5
Organize, at least occasionally, romantic dates. Visit a movie, cafe or restaurant, walk hand in hand, or have a candlelit dinner. Maybe some place will become memorable, and you will constantly return there. It will add variety to your daily life and refresh your senses. Most importantly, remember that love has every chance of becoming eternal if you value it mutually. It will not be possible to save it alone.
