If you are tired of playing secondary roles, take the initiative in your own hands. The initiative can relate to relationships, career. You cannot do without personal activity in an attempt to self-improvement and self-development.
Instructions
Step 1
Initiative will not fall from the ceiling on you. The ability to defend and promote one's interests must be developed gradually, consistently and systematically. Take responsibility for your life. Do not hope that someone else will do everything for you: those around you may not know or share your preferences.
Step 2
Awareness is an important quality of a leader. In an unfamiliar environment, a person is lost and is afraid to take a step. Therefore, you must be aware of what environment you are dealing with and what to expect from certain actors. Start with simple actions, then move on to bigger accomplishments.
Step 3
Rely only on yourself. Small assignments, of course, can be given to one of the comrades, but in this case you should not rely on full compliance with your requirements and expectations. Each person forms their own socio-psychological matrix in life, so your views on the same phenomenon may be radically different.
Step 4
To keep the situation under control, organize your living space. Allocate your time and energy to what matters most to you. Do not waste your time on petty entertainment, they will not make you stronger or more attractive, they will only take up your time.
Step 5
To be a proactive person, you need to lead a healthy and active lifestyle. Go in for sports, run, swim, pump blood through your body. They will look up to you, seeing in you not only a leader, but also a slender fit person who, of course, is worthy of imitation.
Step 6
If you are unsure about the need for the first step on your part, try to provoke another to take this step. For example, if you want to get to know someone, look closely at the person you like from the outside, smile mysteriously, draw attention to yourself. You can come up and ask for any help.
