There is a list of simple truths that every woman should remember, but for some reason they always forget about them.
Don't ask for understanding and love
The very first path to depression is to expect that everyone and everyone will love and accept you, no matter what. Instead of seeking eternal recognition, surround yourself with people who love and appreciate you, even though they know your flaws.
Forgive yourself
Sooner or later, all of us are tormented with thoughts “but what would happen if …” It's good if such dreams lead to a good immersion in sleep and sweet dreams. But it is completely different when, after such a thought, a hail of self-reproaches and self-flagellation begins. Stop! Mistakes in our life are created so that we learn from them and be more perfect than at the beginning, and not at all so that we now suffer and analyze endlessly what else has been done wrong. What was, what was. Accept this and forgive yourself.
Live in harmony with your inner world
Constant mental stress is a sure indication that you are living someone else's life, which absolutely does not correspond to your inner views. Maybe it's time to listen to yourself and change the priority course?
Stop asking for forgiveness all the time
You should never apologize for your life. Many people feel guilty about their well-being: they are lucky with their husbands, live well, etc. You do not have to maintain the standard of living of other people and take care of their material or spiritual well-being, much less feel guilty for living well. This is at least stupid.
Be self-sufficient
Stop waiting for the right moment or help. Take what you need yourself. Believe me, the fairy godmother will not come and present you with what you want on a silver platter. If you wanted something, set a goal for yourself, start to implement the intention. There won't be a better moment than now. The sooner you start, the better.
