In the family, the child is surrounded by universal love; for parents, grandparents, he is the most intelligent, sociable and honest. He is loved for the fact that he just is. But among classmates, your child does not cause much love, because in the children's team, somewhat different advantages are appreciated than in the family.
Instructions
Step 1
Help your child improve their academic performance. Successful people enjoy authority at all times. Take along with him for homework, purchase additional literature that will broaden your child's horizons in a particular subject.
Step 2
Help your child increase self-esteem, often because of low self-esteem conflicts occur among schoolchildren. More confident children try to suppress a weak and insecure child.
Step 3
Get praise from the teacher for your child's good response in class. Encouragement from your instructor is the best way to assert yourself in the classroom.
Step 4
Cultivate strong-willed qualities in your child: honesty, justice and decisiveness.
Step 5
Make sure that your child has the opportunity with someone to share an extra pen, candy, apple. Unhappy children are respected in any team.
Step 6
Instill in your child feelings of kindness and compassion, pick up an abandoned kitten on the street, or feed a yard dog.
Step 7
Do not discuss his classmates with the kid, because your opinion may differ from his. Try to notice good traits and actions in his peers, then your child will not look down on them and will quickly join the team.
Step 8
Try to instill in your child calmness and prudence, because in the children's team they do not like overly emotional children who react too violently to offenses or bad grades.
Step 9
Meet with the teacher at school after school when your child's classmates are not visible. Children do not respect "suck", and any arrival of a parent in an educational institution, except for a class parent meeting or a call for bad behavior, is perceived by children as flirting with the teacher.
Step 10
If all the attempts made did not help your child to become an "equal" member of the children's collective, contact a psychologist, he will suggest more professional methods.
